I have previously shared my thoughts on what to do when you’ve come out of a long term Relationship or have experienced a Break up. Generally I advise that you evaluate what happened and what went wrong, so that you can work on Developing yourself for the next Right Relationship.
Lets be real, after a Break-up, whilst your trying really hard to ‘Focus’ on you, embracing being single, re-educating yourself on expectations of Men, Women & Relationships. You WILL be approached by Interested parties, you WILL attract people, you may even be asked out….. Its inevitable, because you’re a beautiful, handsome, intelligent & loving person…. I could go on!
The Question is – How to do you handle this attention?… Especially if you’re not really ready to commit or you are being approached by the wrong people.
Well, I encourage you to read my Husbands post – 4 Things Attractive People Can Do With Their Beauty.
Dear Mrs Vito 
I just tell them that I’m not into dating yet and if they are really interested in me, they’ll wait. Can’t afford to have another heartbreaking moment again….
I definitely agree. Its best to be honest anyways & like you say, if they are really interested they’ll wait or focus on building a real friendship.